Archive For The “relationship” Category

What a Woman Wants

What do women want? It’s the source of frustration, confusion, and misunderstandings for numerous men (and even some women). It’s a broad question, and I will attempt to offer some insight whilst not speaking for the entire female gender. The first thing you must know is that every woman is very different and that “one size does not fit all” when it comes to the desires of a woman. That being said, there are some things that I think are pretty unanimous in the world of what a woman wants. I can only provide a guide, but figuring out what to do with the information is up to you. Essentially, there is one major thing you need to know.

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How To Meet a Woman

How To Meet a Woman

So, you’re down on the luck with the ladies. You have been single for some time. You just need to hook up with someone and spend some time with them. Be it for personal or not personal interaction, just so long as you are talking to someone else other than your cat.

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Top 10 Worst Dates (#6)

As I recall these events, it appears that my office downtown was a two-stop shop: A place for earning a paycheck and a place for meeting men.

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Top 10 Worst Dates (#10)

They joys of singlehood are long behind me, and even though I have been with my husband for 10 years, I reflect back on some of the highlights of dating.

I have had some amazing dates, met some wonderful guys, and even though they weren’t “the one” for me, I remain friends with a few and have contact from time to time. Most have married, have girlfriends, and are still seeking someone that will change their world. I like that we can be friends and laugh at ourselves all these years later. I do believe that men and women can be friends – but maybe that’s just my own perspective based on my own experiences. It doesn’t make me wrong, and it doesn’t make me right. I love the gray areas of life.

Then, there are those dates that will live in infamy in my memory. I have no shame in admitting I went out with what some might consider “a lot” of guys…but I did date often. I guess I should define “date.” The word doesn’t equate to “slept with.” I will define it as simply a single (or a guy I believed to be single) and I going out without other people or children for an evening of entertainment to be shared by both parties. Yes. That is always the plan, is it not? It sounds utterly simple, but somehow, all of us can screw it up. It may come as a total shock, but I am far from perfect. I am certain I have been the bad side of a date, and as I think of them, I am happy to share them.

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Face the Rejection Admit the Flirt

Just admit your faults, mistakes and bad flirts, to friends and family. The truth of this will bring you to a feeling of freedom and openness. Don’t tell them in a goofy voice. Do not tell them looking for advice, just let the info out.

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